Have I mentioned, this lesson is a hard lesson!
You always, always know everyone born is going to die one day, but it just isn't something you want to happen.
Here is your lesson...I hope!
If your grandparents, parents or siblings are still alive, spend time with them. Talk about the family history, what was special about their childhood, what movies they like, or even just sit in the room with them. This is the harder time in your life, but one of the most rewarding times too.
Don't be a baby and say "I'm mad at them... they always criticize me... I have a game to go to... they'll be there next weekend" such EXCUSES will come back to simmer during those lovely "pity party" days in the future. If you are truthful with yourself you are just trying to justify not taking your precious time out of your precious schedule to include someone you should honor. Yep, there might be times when you don’t ‘love’ your family much, but you are to honor them.
Put on your big girl or boy panties and go see those people that you love, respect, and possibly disappoint you - even if they tell you things like “you must have gained weight since the last time I saw you” (yes, my grandmother said that… a lot - even when I lost weight! haha). OH, don’t be sad for me, I have precious memories of her too - like teaching all us grandkids (boys too) how to make pies and count back change. She was a practical woman you see.
My mom, well, she is teaching me how to go out being faithful to God. She is teaching 2 Bible study classes a week AND teaching a one-on-one class with her cousin while taking pain meds and using oxygen. Time with those she loves - sharing the one she loves the most. Mom has it right!
So this hard lesson is one EACH OF US WILL FACE personally and thru others. ARE YOU READY?
One last thought - let people know they mean something to you while they are alive, not in a casket. Send that card or arrangement of flowers while they can understand that they have an impact on another person's life. It won't hurt you and it will thrill them!
More another day -